Today’s Scripture readings gather together several close images from scripture: marriage, joy, wine and the Spirit. The presence of God’s Spirit is always associated with joy. A wedding feast is an occasion of joy, and an essential element of the joyfulness at Biblical wedding feasts is wine. We see the near panic that sets in at Cana when the steward discovers that the wine is running out, and the relief when this turns out not to be so. We see the expressions of joy and love that are expressed on such occasions, too: “As the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so will your God rejoice over you.” In the Book of Revelation, the coming of the New Jerusalem, the establishment of the eternal home of God’s people is described in these terms: “The marriage-feast of the Lamb has come, and the Bride has made herself ready…the Spirit and the Bride say “Come!”
There is something very touching about a wedding: the young groom standing in the aisle, waiting radiantly to receive his bride as she approaches; the smiles and easy laughter as people recall that day in their own lives. And, of course, the wine that flows and makes the simplest of remarks amusing. Such is the joy which flows from such an occasion that even the time worn old jokes, without which no wedding is complete, are received with good will and humour. Whether it is the drinks that draw uncle Bertie or not, the joy and the jokes still seem him at his best, his most humourous.

Fr Phillip.